You made it all work, but are you fully alive?
By Emily Blefeld, LICSW & Dan Cohen, PhD
So much of your life has been devoted to building your 5.0 self who is attractive, smart, capable and competent. After many years of trial-and-error, you mastered the ability to move through the social demands of conversations and expectations.
You made it all “work,” except that underneath the successful, likeable version of you, there is another identity entirely: the dreaded Real You. You know it from its anxieties and doubts, and insatiable yearning for more. Before you flash that photo-perfect smile, engage that professional speech or email, you feel the insecurity tighten across your chest, fear ignite in your gut, and stress strain in your eyes.
The Inner Voice That Questions Everything
If your inner mind chatter doesn’t outright hate you or the life you live, it certainly has serious doubts. It claims with disheartening authority to know that, in truth, you are not who you are presenting to the world… there’s a duality, insisting you are not as on purpose, intelligent, capable, or competent as they think and in time, you will mess it all up. Or you are doing it all from the goodness of your heart, and you will nail it, but you are completely out of alignment and living, loving, and doing inauthentically.
You have become an expert at managing that voice and performing your way through it… yet, the inner conflict between how you appear to the world and how you feel about yourself costs you the fullness of a life that is truly yours.
The Call to Step Into Your True Self
You know that it is time to come out from behind the curtain that keeps you trapped within and keeps love, passion, and authenticity at a distance.
You already sense more than you can explain. You recognize patterns in people, systems, and conversations that others miss. Sometimes, your heightened perception and sensitivity is an advantage. Other times, feeling and knowing too much can churn up confusion, overwhelm, and illness.
Are you ready to transmute the doubts and learn to trust what you perceive? Your intuitive gifts may your greatest strengths. Why not let them guide you to a more heart-led way of being, one that is connected to meaning and alive with possibility.
Why Understanding Alone Isn’t Enough
Understanding the problem and pointing to the solution is not enough to create real change. You well know that your life is not matching up with what is possible. You can function in yours, but it does not fully engage you. Your intimate relationships can feel limited, repetitive, or draining.
You believe the answer is to upgrade yourself into a better person. More credentials. A clearer strategy. A better body. A sharper mind. More accountability. Improve these, and the life you want will follow.
Except it does not work. Here’s why.
Beyond the Personal: The Field of Consciousness
You have been conditioned to identify yourself as your body, your mind, and your emotional patterns. You experience your thoughts as your own. You experience your reactions as your own. You experience your limitations as personal.
That’s only a partial story. Beyond ordinary reality, you also exist within a larger field of consciousness that both surrounds you and lives through you. Your nervous system, your perception, and your relational patterns are shaped by forces that extend far beyond your individual biography.
The Truth About Repeating Patterns
Many of the most persistent dynamics in your life did not originate with you.
The intensity of impulses and addictions, the pull towards the “wrong” partner, the repetitive patterns, are often expressions of unresolved traumas carried forward through your biological lineage.
They are hidden loyalties that live in the body, color perception, and drive behavior. Unless they are seen and integrated, they endlessly repeat.
This is where you feel the call to Seeing with Your Heart and our signature Alchemical Constellations Training (ACT). When you are ready to untie the tangled threads of generational sorrow, we are ready to meet you and help open the doors of psychic awareness and ancestral healing that lead to your best life.
ACT is a diverse, global community of wayshowers, healers, visionaries, and wisdompreneurs. Together, with Emily Blefeld, Dan Cohen, and the Alchemy Team, you will learn to meet your greatest challenges with resiliency, presence, and resource.
What You’ll Experience Inside ACT
The year-long ACT Training begins with rhythmic Seeing with Your Heart practices that ignite your ability to perceive the nonlocal, non-physical consciousness that fills the universe. These practices open your mind, body, heart into deeper awareness of nature, ancestors, and spirit.
Next, you enter a direct exploration of Constellations. We teach you how to track relational dynamics, recognize inherited patterns, and facilitate healing movements that bring systems into coherence.
In the last third of ACT, you practice facilitation skills and translate this work into your unique offering. We support you at each step to bring your full self with all your gifts and messes to meet the real needs of the world.
Don’t Stay Stuck in the Loop
Don’t be stuck trying to make things better.
We all live in an environment saturated with information and misinformation designed to direct your attention, shape your preferences, and influence your decisions. It is increasingly difficult to distinguish what serves you from shameless manipulation.
Fragmentation is present everywhere. Nations, communities, families, and intimate relationships get caught in loops of trauma that repeat without being resolved. Until you can perceive them, you cannot help but participate in them.
ACT will remove the barrier between your everyday experience and the hidden structures of consciousness. It gives you direct access to the psychic pathways where unlimited possibilities reside.
Your Invitation
Registration to attend the 5-Day In-Person Alchemical Constellations Training retreat closes in two days.
This is a year-long commitment to expand your perception and learn Constellations. It will change how you live, how you work and how you love.
— THE CORE PROGRAM COMPONENTS —
You may attend this course and graduate using only the core program components listed here:
– Every other week there are Virtual Training Circles for Teaching, Experiential Exercises, and Systemic Constellations
- Tuesdays from 12-2:30 PM Eastern or 7:00 – 9:30 PM Eastern
– There are two 5 Day Live Training Retreats at Menla Resort & Spa in the Catskill Mountains of New York (Streamed Virtually for Those Attending via the Hybrid Choice)
- April 15-19, 2026
- October 15-19, 2026
– Each participant receives 4 Private Systemic Constellation Sessions with Dan Cohen, PhD and Emily Blefeld, LICSW, and Elise Bish, Desire Catalyst
- 2 with Dan, 1 with Emily, 1 with Elise
– A Live Training on Facilitating Systemic Erotic Liberation with Elise Bish
- Elise’s teaching will take place during our regular Tuesday virtual gathering and at the live retreats
— THE OPTIONAL COMPONENTS —
We have packed the year-long training with a kaleidoscope of unique teachings that will support you, inspire you and reveal many true-to-you possibilities to complement this work:
– One Optional 5 Day Live Training Retreat for All Seeing with Your Heart Participants & Graduates at Alton L. Collins Retreat Center in Portland, Oregon
- April 6-11, 2027
– Weekly Hearth Tending → Individual & Group Systemic Constellation Support and Practice Sessions (Facilitated by the Alchemy Team)
- Thursdays, from 12-2:30 PM Eastern or 7:00 – 9:30 PM Eastern
– Alternating with the Core Training, every other week there are Alchemy Team Virtual Workshops.
- Tuesdays from 12-2:30 PM Eastern or 7:00 – 9:30 PM Eastern
Workshops include:
- Tapping into the power of your desire and your erotic liberation with Elise Bish
- Deep knowledge of how to craft and enliven your online presence with Kit Mejia
- Learning to shift from burdened to resourced with Oana Tanase
- Finding the story beneath the story with Michelle Bias, MA
- Lucid Living to explore conscious awakening with Sheila Chacko
- Equine work on embodied presence with Sally Nilsson and Eric Kolesar and the Tula Vida Herd of Costa Rica
- Learning to Alchemize your Vision and Life with Feng Shui with Zsoka Scurtescu
- Soul retrieval and past life constellations with Antonia Stessl-Heilmeier, PhD
- Using the power of voice and song to express your authenticity with Asia Simpson
- The 9 ways around the wisdom well that lives within you with Santjes Oomen
- Allowing constellations to form organically from the body with Erik Andersen
- Harnessing the power of word sketching to unravel emotional complexity with Ginny Vinson
- How to use Brennan Healing Science within your constellations with Jill Gannon
- How to use archetypes as a living map of that magnetism with Ruma Biswas
- Learning the keys to create a container of sacred care with India Amara
- Riding and writing towards the New Year with Freedom Cartwright
- Tuning into the world of plants, nature and elemental allies with Kat Gibson
— PLUS THE FOLLOWING BONUSES —
– Alchemical Constellations Facilitator Certification
- Graduates receive a Certification as a Seeing with Your Heart Alchemical Constellations Facilitator. We are approved for certification under the auspices of Constellators International.
– Private Online Forum
- Ongoing discussion, and community support throughout the program and beyond Facilitator Certification.
– Private Alumni Online Forum
- All generations of ACT graduates connect, collaborate, share insights, and receive ongoing community support.
– Free access to the Ceci Tool
- Founded by Cecilio Fernandez Regojo, an online environment to facilitate virtual constellations and get surprising insights. Click here to learn more about the Ceci Tool.
– Autographed Copy of Dan Cohen’s Book
Why not let curiosity win and explore what’s in your heart’s desires with a free call?
Warmly,
Emily & Dan
