Rethinking the Soulmate Journey
By Emily Blefeld
One Soulmate or Many?
We are often told that when we meet our soulmate, we’ll live happily ever after. But what this prediction leaves behind (and one of the biggest truths I’ve discovered), is the possibility that you’ll meet many soulmates. They arrive in synchronistic moments when your soul is seeking clarity, movement, or transformation. They appear when something is dying and something new is being reborn. They show up when you are moving through a threshold and being initiated by the Mystery into new expressions of the deepest truth ready to meet the light.
Yes, many soulmates, and although they’re here to celebrate the “happily ever after” moments in life when you feel like Glinda, the Good Witch, steady and rooted in your grace, they are also with you walking the path to the darker corners of your heart, where parts are exiled and seek remembering. Where your soulful power, like Elphaba’s, rises in its full strength and reveals itself as worthy of love.
A Surprise… A Community of Soulmates
With the opening of my Generational Alchemy course in just a few days time, I’m thrilled to say that I’m at another threshold in my life, my work, and my relationships where I’m meeting a community of soulmates. And for me, this is a surprise…
I created this course with a strong commitment to the wayshowers who would enroll. It is filled with components that I believe are necessary to bring ideas and inspiration into physical form, while meeting financial goals, applying business strategy, and building a community movement through the services you offer.
What I did not expect was how deeply I would be met by the people stepping inside… and how excited I would be to travel through the dimensions with this community. Spirit is placing extraordinary humans in this cave time with me.
This brings me real joy. New soulmates arriving at the perfect moment. It feels like a gift for the winter season ahead, for the holidays, and to be fully honest, for the years that follow.
True belonging is the spiritual practice of believing in and belonging to yourself so deeply that you can share your most authentic self with the world and find sacredness in both being a part of something and standing alone in the wilderness. True belonging doesn’t require you to change who you are; it requires you to be who you are.
— Brene Brown
How I Came Out of Hiding
A little more than a decade ago, I joined a women’s priestess mystery school. I was in the middle of a divorce and knew I needed transformation within the holding of a like-minded community. In that program, I met an entire group of sister soulmates who helped me come into deeper alignment. I came out of hiding behind an evidence-based clinical practice as a psychotherapist and opened the doors of life to include my more esoteric, psychic, mystical wise woman inside.
The holding we offer to each other is so much more than I could have imagined. From when I awake for the day ahead, we meet (on Zoom) to meditate, place pen to paper with our heart’s stories, and exercise together. These people shine through the cracks amidst my life and offer the support and inspiration that my soul needs. These are people I can count on, people who are raising the collective vibration on the planet and people who, when I surround myself with, I am inspired, reconnected and lit by my life.
Inspired by this incredible experience in my own life, and my natural gift for tending the spark of connection in community, I decided to create this for you too…
Built to Hold You Through the Birthing Process of Bringing Your Magic Into the World
It’s the reason my Generational Alchemy course (beginning in just a few days) has elements such as community writing and creativity time, movement classes and of course, weekly constellation alchemy. It’s built to hold you through the birthing process of bringing your magic into the world and tending the heart of your life, family, and community.
Co-creators on a shared journey can be wayshowers for us and the people that have stepped through the doors for my Generational Alchemy course are some of the most unique, accomplished, and quirky, fun folks that I’ve ever met…
They are seasoned, highly refined healers and professionals who have done multiple trainings, and are now ready to write their own course and share their own sage wisdom. They’ve had a full career but want to do more meaningful work. Despite having even retired, their magic is stronger and clearer than ever and they know there’s more to share.
There’s therapists who see the limits with hour-to-hour work and want to go to the next level with workshops and groups so they can support more, serve more and create more space for deep community connections.
There’s authors who want to write and be accountable to their heart speak. To let the divine speak through them and to step into visibility so others can hear the holy words.
Every one of them is centering a connection to divinity, the infinite, the pulse of mystery. Although they do a lot holding for others, they too desire to be held and met in their fire and vulnerability.
At Our Core, We Are Shaped for Connection
Weekly Systemic Constellation Transformation & Mentoring Circles
At our core, we are beings shaped for connection and collaboration. With support, we can connect to ancient roots to sprout new shoots. Our magic was never meant to be alone behind a computer screen trying to find a unique vision.
When we get in the room with other inspired, successful, divinely connected humans, we rise to meet that same energy. Their belief expands our own. Their clarity sharpens ours. Their courage reminds us what’s possible.
Often, simply placing ourselves in that field of possibility is enough to activate momentum, dissolve doubt, and call in the very opportunities we’ve been circling for months. Getting in the room is sometimes all that’s needed to manifest our biggest desires.
And so, with doors opening in just a few days, I’m inviting you into this room one last time.
If You Know You Want to Bring Your Gifts Into the World…
Now’s the time to come together to break the habits and patterns that keep us belonging to our family systems of numbing, disconnection, and staying small and to the collective paradigm that marginalizes magic and mystery.
If you know it’s time to bring your work to the frequency of your soul… let’s do it. Together.
I live my life in widening circles
that reach out across the world.
I may not complete this last one
but I give myself to it.I circle around God, around the primordial tower.
I’ve been circling for thousands of years
and I still don’t know: am I a falcon,
a storm, or a great song?— Rainer Maria Rilke
What’s in This Course and Why Does It Matter?
Weekly Systemic Constellation Transformation & Mentoring Circles
This is a space where your gifts take shape inside a supportive community. You step into a live field of resonance, shared intention, and honest momentum. You’re supported, challenged, and inspired by others walking the path beside you, making courage stronger and breakthroughs inevitable. Working with Emily you’ll experience a guide who tends both the practical and the mystical, helping you prune the day-to-day clutter while infusing your world with extraordinary intentionality so your practice/business/projects can truly blossom.
Intuition into the heart of business/practice design, revealing how to create offerings in partnership with the field, tapping multidimensional perception so your content flows from a deeper source. To sit in the front row of your own evolution, surrounded by a circle of visionaries just as devoted to theirs.
Movement Practices:
Movement, along with the transmissions carried through music, community, and the presence of your guides, reshapes your field. Some of you already move, but this is different: you move together, every morning, in community. These are the people witnessing your projects, cheering you forward, and holding your belly, back, and heart.Together you build an energetic grid. Daily practice strengthens connection across land, sky, water, and time. Each morning you meet, attune, and bow to the infinite in honesty about your inner state.
The facilitators in this Program are alchemists, they have all taken Seeing with Your Heart teachings and are weaving it into the body to support all of us on a cellular level—including me.
Movement is core to purpose and abundance because it brings the soul into the body of your work. Movement practices hold us accountable to the new thought patterns that we’re creating so there’s less stumbling through old patterns a few days after a big revelation begins to take root. Movement practices give us daily touch points to honor this body as the vessel of real-life magic by which we are able to connect to the primordial oneness that flows through us all.
Writing, Object Constellation, & Altar Practices
After movement comes writing. This is where we dip the pen into the creative heart, meet our muse, and collaborate with the consciousness behind our ideas. Elizabeth Gilbert in the book Big Magic reminds us that ideas have their own intelligence and they choose human partners. Writing is where we meet them.
For me, writing is discipline and devotion: I meet the intelligence in my work, create clarity, organize thought, and strengthen my voice.
I’ll offer sound, altar, and divination prompts, along with accountability, to help you complete the projects you’ve been holding: books, curriculum, posts, newsletters, workshop marketing, or simply the journal to open a pathway to the soul. You won’t drift from your work; you’ll have structure to bring it into form.
There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.
Maya Angelou
Hearth-Tending
Hearth tending offers intimate systemic support. It’s a space for celebration, questions, recalibration, and rekindling your inner fire.
Our hearth tenders are trained in alchemical constellations, animism, abundance catalyzing, organizational design, feng shui, and systemic coaching, and so much more.
They understand how energy moves through a home, a business, a body, and a field. They track patterns with precision. They listen for the places where life force contracts. They identify the systemic links that pull you off purpose. They help you reconnect to the movements that bring strength.
Hearth tending supports you in real time. You receive guidance from practitioners who understand lineage, space, structure, and flow. You receive perspective that steadies your nervous system and clarifies your next steps. This is where you stay connected to your desire, your work, and your vision through steady relational support.
Magic & Manifestation Cauldron over Imbolc
Magic & Manifestation Cauldron over Imbolc
Each Imbolc, I take personal vows for the year ahead. This ritual is sacred to me, and I only offer it in groups ready to hold it. This year, the field is strong enough, so I have brought together some of the best facilitators of magic and manifestation to guide us through an epic 2-day experience.
Together we will crystallize our intentions and stand in the presence of witnesses who can track purpose through body, lineage, and field. We’ll receive transmissions that prepare the nervous system for clarity, truth, and right action.
We’ll also kindle St. Brigid’s fire, our collective commitment to tend the hearth of humanity. We’ll anchor this fire in our bodies, work, relationships, and communities as a living agreement to bring warmth and life force where it’s needed most.
This is the vow of a community that knows its purpose. A village tending the future.
Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.
~ Ursula K. Le Guin
The Core Team
Emily Blefeld, a psychic Psychotherapist and Systemic Family Constellations Alchemist, will meet you with two-feet in your underworld while quantum leaping towards your dreams.
I invited a shadow huntress (Donna Wilding) to let the mess be the message. We don’t need the perfect website, we don’t need to wait until we are more educated or experienced or ready. We need to see the perfection of our mess and that sometimes, our shadow is actually our overly detailed and clean PowerPoint.
I invited a Desire Catalyst (Elish Bish) to ensure that pleasure and eros are transmitted and catalyzed. We can’t manifest dreams that feel sexy and delightful without tapping into our pleasure body. The juice-for-life comes from pleasure and it’s what makes our work magnetic.
I invited a Systemic Coach that focuses on inner clarity and outer design (Oana Tǎnase) to be able to have the soul in the organization of your work come into harmony. With Oana you’ll clearly identify the patterns around what holds you in hesitation and what sends you into overwork.
And I invited a Sound Alchemist (Lisa Ishwari Murphy) to connect on a vibrational and cellular level to explore energetic alignment, natural law, and the human energy field as pathways to awaken your natural leadership. Lisa has been a key partner in my personal evolution and exploration of natural law and has had profound effects on my ability to manifest in abundance with the Universe.
